Safe Sex

Safe Sex at Manatomy

Safe sex isn’t just about protection — it’s about respect, confidence, and taking control of your health. Whether you’re We believe in safe sex, whether you’re playing alone or playing together.

At Manatomy, we’re not just here to sell toys — we’re here to help you explore your desires with confidence, care, and informed choices. Whether it’s your first time experimenting or you’re a seasoned explorer, safety should always be part of the pleasure.

We’ve compiled some of the most common questions we hear from the community — based on public information. For personalised advice, always speak to your GP or sexual health professional.

Playing Alone – Yes, It’s Still Safe Sex

Solo play is one of the safest forms of sex — but it still benefits from good hygiene and product knowledge.

  • Use water-based lubricants: They’re gentle, easy to clean, and safe with most toys and condoms. Silicone lube can damage some toys — water-based is the universal go-to.
  • Clean your toys before and after: Use a toy cleaner or warm soapy water (avoid harsh chemicals).
  • Store gear in a dry, dust-free space: Avoid leaving items loose or in shared drawers.

Your solo sessions are yours to enjoy — safely, comfortably, and without friction.

Playing Together – Safety is a Shared Experience

When you’re connecting with someone else, looking after each other is part of the fun. Here’s what we recommend:

  • Get tested regularly: For most sexually active people, this means every 3–6 months. Find a sexual health clinic near you.
  • Explore PrEP & PEP:
  • Condoms are still king: They help prevent STIs and offer peace of mind — and with the right lube, they’re even better.
  • Open communication: Know your boundaries, ask about your partner’s, and don’t be afraid to pause and check in.

Toy Safety by Type

Different toys require different care — here’s a quick guide to common types and their safety notes:

Electro Play

  • Always use toys made specifically for electrostimulation.
  • Never use above the waist or on broken skin.
  • Start with low settings — never jump straight to max intensity.

Penis Pumps

  • Go slow and follow the manufacturer’s guide.
  • Never exceed the recommended pressure.
  • Avoid pumping while numb or after recent injury — listen to your body.

Nipple Pumps

  • Like penis pumps, they work on vacuum pressure — start small and slow.
  • Monitor colour and sensation — pain, numbness or discolouration = stop.
  • Don’t leave on for extended periods.

Anal Play

  • Use loads of lube — preferably water-based or hybrid.
  • Never skip warm-up. Start with smaller toys or fingers.
  • Micro-tears and bleeding can occur if rushed — take your time, and never push past discomfort.
  • Clean toys thoroughly and avoid switching between anal and other areas without proper sanitation.

Find a Sexual Health Clinic Near You

Need a check-up or advice from a pro? Start here:

Or search Australia-wide:
Healthdirect National Clinic Finder